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A Declaration.
I will not seek or accept the unearned in spirit or in matter.
Most people can understand the latter. They understand the idea that you should not pay a dollar for something that is worth $.50 or nothing at all. They hold this as self evident because it is a material value. Unfourtanatly it is not so easy for them to understand the spiritual side of this. When I say spiritual I mean that pertaining to the soul of a man, i.e. his conscious mind, that is the only spirit I recognize.
In order to understand what I say let me break it down. Whether I talk about a loaf of bread or a friendship both of these are values. They are something for which you need to act in order to gain or keep. In a simplified manner both are things that are purchased; one at the price of a dollar, the other at the price of effort. But both of these currencies reduce down to the only thing that a human can offer another, time. All I have to offer is my time to any man willing to trade. It is my time that all of the products that I trade come from. The time of thought to create a new idea or reach a conclusion that allows a friendship and the time that I trade to my employer for the dollar to buy a loaf of bread.
All interactions between men are acts of trade.
This idea is vulgar in todays' world because trade has come to mean a sacrifice. Trade is the opposite of such a parasitic concept. In order for a trade to take place each party must offer value recognized by the other as such and it can only take place to mutual benefit with mutual consent. The man whom I buy a loaf of bread from has not sacrificed anything for me by my purchase, he is recieving the price he demands, and I am not sacrificing because I am paying a price that I accept as worth the bread. I apply this same pricinple to my friendships.
I will no longer offer my time or mind to those who do not offer me a compelling value in return. I am not in the business of sacrifice, neither the reciever or giver of such. Irrationality is not a value I seek and I will not tolerate it's presence in my friendships. If you would like offer me the best of yourself as trade for the best of me I will be more than happy to talk to you. I will not accept your faults as a claim on my friendship or your need of time as a claim to mine. Now that I've said this I can rest.
© Copyright 2003 Michael Hellesen.
Last update: 4/6/2003; 1:06:47 PM.
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