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Sun, 03 Dec 2006 22:31:23 GMT

SEX TIP #25

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
I sometimes watch pornos with my girlfriend. Lately, I'm noticing that she seems to be getting turned on more and more during the lesbian scenes. Do you think I should suggest we add another girl if she wants to try it?—Tri-curious in Wilmington, Virginia

Dear Tri,
You'd better be sure your read on her lezzie proclivity is correct, because if you bring it up and she's only interested in the fantasy and not the reality, she may get really pissed off. If I were you, I'd get a straight lesbo video and see if she says anything about it. You might tell her that you've been noticing how wet she's been getting during lesbian scenes as of late, so you wanted to give her a treat.

One thing to remember: Even if she is curious about adding another girl to the mix, don't be the one to suggest who that would be. If you start picking out friends of hers you want to bang, that's a surefire recipe for disaster. Let me know how it goes. And take some pictures if you can.

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Wed, 29 Mar 2006 22:54:38 GMT

SEX TIP #24

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
Stephanie is 18, and a complete virgin?and I mean to everything. The most she?d ever done before she met me was "French kiss". She had never even been felt up before I touched her in my car one night. She?s let me touch her a little more since: hands under the bra and in her panties. It?s been slow going, but she?s a real cutie, so I don?t mind. Here?s what I need to ask you about. Stephanie is willing to rub my cock through my shorts, but so far, she?s not gotten comfortable enough to touch my dick. Any ideas on how I might move her along a little? I?m getting tired of jerking off after dates like I was back in high school again.?Doug R., Novi, Michigan

Dear Doug,
Wow, has this girl been sheltered or what? Where?d she go to school, a convent? Here?s what I would do. The next time Stephanie is over at your place and you two are getting touchy-feely, get behind her. Rub your dick against her ass with your shorts on while you play with her tits and finger her. When you know she?s good and lubed up, put her hand inside your shorts and see how she reacts. Since she?ll be excited, and a little preoccupied and since you won?t be face-to-face, she might not be embarrassed and just go with it. If you bring her along gradually, believe me, she?s going to want to see what she?s been touching soon enough.

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Wed, 21 Dec 2005 05:01:48 GMT

SEX TIP #23

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
I need help with a wonderful girlfriend. Samantha is 18 and I'm 32. Two years ago, Sam was in a horrible family car crash that broke many of her bones and slashed her body into ribbons. She'll be graduating from high school in June and wants to go to graphic design school in the fall. We've been dating for five months now -three exclusively- so I've already seen her body. It's like a jigsaw puzzle of scars, but still very sexy. She is an amazing petite, at 5'3" tall and 106 pounds. Sam says she's ready for some clit sex with me in the worst way, but she doesn't want me to see her body. I suggested keeping the lights off, but she still doesn't think that's going to be enough.

They say to put a bag over an ugly girl's head before you fuck her, but Sam is in no way ugly. Rather, she has a very pretty face and a ravaged but still beautiful body. Furthermore, she gives me plenty of indication she can be as good in bed as any "dirty girl". And I say this in a good way, with no direspect to females...

We've talked for hours on end about this but can't seem to find a way past her fear. I'm the first man she'll have ever been with, so it's very important to her since she is a virgin. How can I make her feel at ease and make mad, passionate love to this incredible girl? I love her to death and hope that one day we'll marry. Any help you can give me would be greatly appreciated.-Jigsawman, Toledo, Ohio

Dear Jigsawman,
Talk about a bad spot! High school girls dating older guys usually have enough confidence problems without having to deal with actual scars and some self-esteem worries. However, my patient friend, I do have some advice. Ordinarily, adding lingerie to the mix with young, innocent girls can dent the fantasy, but this might solve your girlfriend's woes. Try a body stocking. They're sheer, come in nude so that you can see a lot, but it will mute the areas where she has scarring. In essence, you will be having some pantyhose sex, which should help to make her a lot more comfortable and keep you from having to worry about keeping the lights out all night. Also, there are body stockings that come crotchless, which means that she doesn't necessarily have to remove it for you two to get it on. You should search the Internet and catalogs like Victoria's Secret and Frederick's of Hollywood to pick something out. You may also find crotchless and cut-outs, which would allow you access to those delicious 18-year-old nipples. Finally, you may also consider some oral action instead. Inquire to see if she is ready for her first facial. This may make the transition from virgin to experienced somewhat smoother. Good luck, and have fun!

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Tue, 06 Dec 2005 04:12:38 GMT

SEX TIP #22

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
I know I’ll regret this in a few months, but for right now, I have a problem. Lauren, who was up until very recently a virgin, now can’t get enough sex. I love fucking her, but I still like to go out once in a while, and we never do anymore. The minute Lauren gets to my place, it’s either right to the couch or into the bed. I know that part of it is the fact that she’s young—she just turned 18 only about six weeks ago— but I want us to do more than fuck and 69 when we’re together. Got any suggestions on how I should handle this, Johnny?—Homersim from Yahoo.de

Dear Homersim,
Just wait it out. It’s a phase, just like suddenly finding a new, favorite food and it’s all you want to eat. In a month or so, she’ll probably calm down some, and leaving the house will seem cool to her again. Right now, she’s found something new and exciting, which makes her feel awesome, so she just can’t get enough. Remember the first time you jacked off? That’s exactly the kind of thrill she’s experiencing now. If she’s still a little nympho after another month, then you might want to sit her down and talk to her about it (if she’s not too preoccupied sucking your dick, that is)!

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My Breast Fetish

Sat, 19 Nov 2005 17:11:11 GMT

SEX TIP #21

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
My girlfriend thinks that I have a tits fetish. She's always complaining that I can't keep my hands off her when we're together or, when we're fooling around, my mouth. Truth is, STC, she's right. She has almost perfectly flat boobs, not the kind you see at the Scoreland site -those aren't small tits-. Hers are really tiny and I just go crazy over them because I'm afraid that she'll start to lose them any day. Her mother has at least C-cups, so it's not like Ellie is going to stay flat forever. How can I convince Ellie that I'm not just some boob freak? Am I the only boob lover here who enjoys beautiful tits? —Jerry D., Hamilton, New York

Dear Jerry,
Your boob fascination with Ellie is understandable, but you might want to simply try to pay more attention to all of her tiny, teenage parts and give her nipples a little bit of a break. Girl boobs take time to develop... Chances are that she's not upset that you like or not her tiny titties, but rather she's concerned that you might not like the rest of her. I'd advise you not to totally ignore what's in her nearly empty bra because that would be suspicious. Instead, each time you go out, or fool around with her, pick a different area to pay more attention to than usual. One night, make her nice ass your focus; on another, go down on her until she cums a few times before even trying to get her shirt off. I guarantee you'll still be able to enjoy her straining A-cups, but she'll be a lot more receptive to you for appreciating all of her underdeveloped frame.

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My Young Sex Partner

Wed, 19 Oct 2005 06:09:19 GMT

Bra off, panties on - Shirt on, panties off. A never ending tale...

SEX TIP #20

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
Amy, the girl I’m seeing, absolutely will not let me get her naked. Get this: She’s okay with me getting her top and bra off and sucking on her nipples, but no way will she let me get her shorts and panties off. I have to reach in and finger her to make her cum. If she lets me eat her pussy, I get to work her shorts and panties down to her ankles, but no way will her shirt and bra come off. Johnny, what’s with this girl? It’s not like I haven’t seen all of her in parts. Why won’t she let me see the total package?—Blueman2, via email

Dear Blueman,
The most likely reason for the hide-and-seek behavior of your teen girlfriend is insecurity. Your young sex partner is probably very insecure, which is why she has a problem with being totally naked in front of you, even though you’ve seen all there is to see. Don’t press her on it, especially since you already know that you can do just about everything you want to do with her. Just do it in stages. My thought is that she’ll slowly get comfortable enough to do more and more with you at once, and that will eventually leave her without a stitch on when you’re fooling around. Just give her a little time. I think that’s all she needs. Stay tuned for more and better advice on do teens

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Dirty Talk - No Talk

Fri, 26 Aug 2005 04:59:45 GMT

SEX TIP #20

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
This girl I’m dating is from Russia and came over here to the U.S. only about a year ago. Her English is okay and getting a little better, but she still has this really heavy accent. Here’s the thing. I love it when Sasha talks to me when we’re fooling around. Her accent gets me hard even when she calls me up on the phone to talk about classes. Whenever I hear her, my cock jumps to attention. The negative? I can’t get Sasha to say anything dirty to me when we have sex. She gets really shy in bed, and hardly says anything at all. I know she knows the words—I’ve heard her say them before—but she doesn’t want to say them when we’re alone together. What do you make of that?—Ruskie Lover, Modesto, California

Dear Kruschev,
Methinks Sasha might know the words, but is embarrassed to sing the melody, if you know what I mean. The way I see it, she’s not yet comfortable with the language and talking dirty. That’s going to be tough for her. However, there are things you can do to help her along. Rent a porno flick to watch with her with a lot of hot, dirty talk in it. Let her know exactly how hearing her say similar things to you drives you crazy. See if there are things that she likes you to say to her that turn her on, and go from there. The other thing that I would suggest is to rent out some tapes where there are a lot of foreign girls talking. Since Sasha is Russian, you might want to grab a copy of any of the three volumes of Teen Amateurs: Russian Holiday, which you can order right here in 18eighteen (see page 98 to order). There are also some good titles you can find at your local video store, like Spring Break in Bucharest in which some Eastern Euro Lesbians with some pretty brittle English skills get down and dirty and let their accents all hang out. I think if you share some of this sexy, stunted-English fare with your teen czarina, she’ll warm up to your desire without any fear of the language barrier. Good luck.

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Ass To Mouth

Thu, 19 May 2005 20:26:34 GMT

SEX TIP #19

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
I know this guy that loves to perform oral sex on girls' assholes. I can't imagine how that could possibly feel good. I am really trying to be open-minded about this. My boyfriend really wants to try it out on me. I can't see how he gets any pleasure out of doing this. Licking my asshole can't bring me to an orgasm, can it?-Kissing ass, Miami, Florida.

Dear Kissing ass,
As always, my first question back at people when they're wanting advice on trying something new is, have you tried it? Until you do, assuming it's not dangerous or an activity that puts you at risk for STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) or in any other danger, how can you really know? Anal sex of any sort is viewed by many as taboo because of the assumption that the anus, since it's the place where the human body excretes waste, is filthy and off-limits. Attitudes towards anal sex have traditionally been negative towards the practice. Yet, the nerve bundles in the anus are as plentiful and sensitive as in the male glans and penis, and the female clitoris. There's a lot down there to make one feel good. As to whether oral stimulation of your anus will yield orgasm, that's for you to find out. Some men can't cum from blowjobs, some women can't cum from cunnilingus. My advice is to let your boyfriend try, and see how you feel about it then. To make you both more comfortable, maybe you could do it right after you shower, so you feel more confident and less "unclean" about the whole thing. As well, you may want to let him stimulate you anally with his fingers a few times before allowing him to use his tongue on you, to start seeing if you enjoy that experience, before moving on to the others. Good luck.

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Safe Sex In The Making

Mon, 09 May 2005 06:26:57 GMT

Concern about safe sex?

Following is the indomitable 10:

1) Safe sex is not having sex.
2) Safe sex is shadow fucking.
3) Safe sex is having ongoing migraine headaches.
4) Safe sex is becoming a religious fundamentalist.
5) Safe sex is an ugly wife or a penis-challenged individual.
6) Safe sex is not knowing what a condom is... neither a vagina.
7) Safe sex is bad morning breath.
8) Safe sex is living on airports.
9) Safe sex is achieving denial over one's own needs.
10) Safe sex is preferring hands over genitals.

These days, self-preservation should be your number one motivator. Forget about that italian rubber doll that has been getting the worst and the wettest out of you. Stop fantasizing with torpedo tits all day long.

Face the truth.

If you want to remain healthy and erectile till the fat lady sings, notin' beats the 10 commandments of self-inflicted abstinence.

Become one with the crowd!

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A guide to a disease-free planet.
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Sex Positions A-Z

Tue, 03 May 2005 16:33:17 GMT

Bored with your present life? Same ole rutine, same ole in/out?

You may want to rethink how you approach your sex game strategically. Remember, it's all a matter of conquering space, gaining territory in the vast bushy flatlands. And yes, you may also want to visit the gym more often. No, not to lose weight. Not to gain muscle. Just to avoid straining yourself when trying squatting sex postures. Check aussie possies for more than 255 samples of sex positions and stop bragging about your same 12 ole boringly-to-death missionary variations.

The site has a members area and a few annoying banners but you can get rid of them by clicking the proper links on the page. I found out that you can also peek into hundreds of sex positions just by navigating the free area. For those who join (we haven't) there may be some more interesting information: test your fuckabulary! (In the same way as a person's VOCABULARY determines his ability and creativeness in being VOCAL, a person's FUCKABULARY determines their skills and creativity in the numerous ways of fucking, and associated ways of having sex..).

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Older Man Younger Woman

Sun, 24 Apr 2005 01:07:41 GMT

The never-ending debate. Do women prefer younger dudes or sugar daddies? Following, we present a 4 part discussion formatted as 'top ten reasons why and why nots' that we hope will add a few wrinkles and some white hair on that hot skull of yours.

Older guys:

1. They know how to romance a girl. They send flowers and open doors. Is this not number one on every girl's list? That's something we saw happen for our hot moms. It's traditional and nostalgic and makes me feel very adult, but pampered and taken care of as well. Older men should be experts at it. If they're not, they should pretend to be experts.

2. They have wrinkles. Girls admire them, not the burnt-to-a-crisp-from-overtanning wrinkles but the natural ones that look so completely rugged and real. And usually they have that special quality that displays the maturity and definition of a man who has been to places and will take us there.

3. They wear suits. Not the polyester-blue kind, just the blue or black ones, maybe with pinstripes. My tummy's done flip-flops more than once at the sight of this. On any man, young or mature, suits rule. But older men wear them so much better. It's like a perfect frame for a perfect picture.

4. They're worldly. Every girl agreed that this quality in a man could do no wrong, except if they laugh at us for not knowing what they're talking about. We're not stupid, we're just young. So men, use your life experience to your advantage and teach us things not found in books.

5. They don't have eight arms. In other words, mature men have learned something that's very valuable-control. And when it comes to young girls, this is a major plus 'cause we're just discovering sex. No woman-of any age-enjoys being poked everytime a guy gets an urge. So be gentle and take your time.

6. They know what the tongue is for. Wait a minute, this should be number one. Oh well, let me just reiterate that we're still discovering sex, so we adore a man who isn't all talk. Older men can have a special hold on a girl if they have the proper technique.

7. They have money. This is not to say that we girls are greedy. This is to say that women's liberation skips generations. And most of us aren't ready to get married yet, unless your loaded, so don't worry. Basically, we usually don't have that much money so a man who pays for dinner or buys us a little gift doesn't have to work that hard to win our affections.

8. They're like daddy without all the rules. We know, it screams "Father Figure." But we aren't that far away from when Dad watched our every move. Not that we necessarily enjoyed that part of it. However, it was nice to know that dad would always be there to protect you. So, to have an older man around is comforting to say the least.

9. They have a house to play in. If men look at us like we're dolls that's because we are. Playing house in a real one makes us not feel so bad about having to give up our Barbie dolls. And no guy our age is gonna have a house.

10. They have gray hair. Now that's hot. This one man I knew had hair that was almost all gray. He was ashamed of it, always asking if he should dye it. I, of course, scolded him for such an awful thought.

Gray hair shows strength, the roots of a man who knows what to do. Please don't be insecure about it and don't dye it.

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To Sex Toy or Not To Sex Toy

Fri, 22 Apr 2005 05:47:24 GMT

Can Sex Toys Increase Intimacy In Women?

Fear, guilt and shame can be on the way of sexual enjoyment. Although this can be true for both men and women, it is of particular importance for women. Religious upbringing, social pressures and family conditioning may all work against once orgasmic determination. Sex Toys to the rescue!

Among students of the game and hardcore dildos enthusiasts it is firmly believed that women who resist "sex toys" are the ones who might benefit from them the most. Take note. Either solo or with your lover, some of these mechanical aids -not to mention high tech gadgets- may be looked upon as real friends if:

- You have not yet experienced the Big O
- You are able to orgasm but just solo.
- You want exciting new pleasures and break out of social rut.
- Your man is out of gas but you are still midway there.
- You have had orgasms and are now ready for toygasms.

But don't take our word.
One of these cozy nights when it starts jiggling a bit, get some lil' striptease going and have the toys-inferno handy.
Good gasms!
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Ecstasy and Sex

Tue, 18 May 2004 00:14:35 GMT

SEX TIP #18

Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
My lesbian lover wants me to try Ecstasy. She got some a few weeks ago at a rave, and she said it was the most awesome thing she's ever tried. All her friends say that sex is a thousand percent better on it. What do you think?-To X or Not to X, San Francisco, California

Dear To X,
Just a few weeks ago, a 16 year old girl got a hit of "X" for her birthday. It killed her. 'Nuff said? Probably, but I think I'll go on. Ecstasy has achieved a cult status among the young, teen rave crowd because it does have the potential, like many drugs, to create a euphoric state. Does that enhance sex? . Many report it does. However, as with any drug, the safety of the product is not guaranteed, you will come down off the high and desire more of it to regain that feeling, and you may not have full control of your actions while on the drug. Also, the use of the drug alters the chemistry for a short period of time (which varies) in your brain -your lesbian love may not like that- . This is a possible cause of the death of the 16 year old girl at the time this column is going to bed. Do you want to risk that? Chat with your lesbian girlfriend about this column. If she continues to press you on using X, my firm advice? Go enjoy a good lesbian movie, alone.

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Mon, 08 Dec 2003 23:09:58 GMT

Sexual Stamina

SEX TIP #17

Dear Sex tip counselor,
How long is too long to have sex? My girlfriend has only had one partner before me, and he was one of her high school classmates and didn't have much experience. Amy (not her real name) was surprised the first time that we had sex and it lasted for more than fifteen minutes.

I'm older (a lot older, but I don't want to say), and I've had many sex partners over the years. A half hour seems like a very short period to me, and an hour would be heaven. The only problem with this, is that Amy just doesn't seem to stay into it when we go that long.
Any suggestions?-Ken, Sarasota, Florida

Dear Ken,
You don't say whether or not Amy is having discomfort from sexual activity that simply lasts a long time, or if she's actually getting bored. I'll address both.

The most important thing is that Amy is comfortable. Does she remain lubricated for the duration of your longer-than-she's-used-to sessions? If so, is she experiencing pain in her vagina from the act of sex itself? If she's not used to having sex, she needs to get used to it, just like any other activity.

Have you ever skied? If so, you know that you can't just hop onto the mountain and ski for eight hours. You need to break in some very different muscles. Chances are that Amy is used to "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" sex. If so, you may have to work up to longer, more enjoyable sex sessions.

Now, if she's simply bored by the sex act with you after twenty minutes, maybe there's something that needs looking into on your end of things.

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Sat, 29 Nov 2003 18:18:15 GMT

Missionary Sex

SEX TIP #16

Dear Sex tip counselor,
My girlfriend, Ann, is an absolute dynamo in bed. She loves wrapping her legs around me, and really pumps her ass off the bed when we fuck. She's anything but the "lay there and enjoy it" type. The problem? It's all we do.

She isn't interested in trying anything else. She's obsessed with straight, missionary fucking. She also doesn't really engage in any foreplay. I've tried to initiate some slow kissing, and fondling, but I can't even remember the last time I got to eat her pussy or finger her.

The other night I practically begged her to try it doggie style, or with her on top, but she just kept me on top of her in one position until finally I just gave up and we did it until we both came. I don't want to upset her, Johnny, and any sex is good sex, but I think I'm starting to lose interest in it because it's always the same. I never thought I'd say that!

-bbob2951, via the Internet

Dear Bbob,
Monotony can kill any relationship, and I can see from your letter that you're trying, just not succeeding. I'd suggest that you back off on any sex for a while, and see if your li'l dynamo decides she'd rather experiment than not get laid at all.

Where some guys make the mistake, is that they believe what's been drummed into their heads for years, that it's always us who want sex, and that women have to be cajoled and convinced. Watch one episode of Sex in the City and you'll get a good idea that this is certainly not the case, and if there's anything I've learned in my vast experience-particularly when it comes to young girls and sex-it's that they want it just as bad as we do.

Sometimes even worse. One thing to keep in mind, though, is that you need to find something you both enjoy. Some women don't like to be on top. Some women don't like the way their breasts hang, or how they look if they have a little bit of a tummy, etc. For them, it's solely a matter of appearance. As for positions like doggie style, the size and shape of your cock might be a reason she's wary of change.

Many women report that they experience deeper penetration in the doggie style position, so if you're pretty big, this might worry her. Is there a noticeable curve to your cock? You might have a dick that feels like it's molded just right for the inside of her pussy, or hits her g-spot perfectly, and she might be afraid that she won't get that same feeling in another sexual position. Show her this letter, because while she might be afraid it won't be as good, by the same logic, she'll never know if it can be better unless she's willing to try.

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Fri, 15 Aug 2003 04:45:39 GMT

SEX TIP #15

Dear Sex tip counselor,
My girlfriend is a little weird. I'm not unhappy with her, but we've been arguing about this for a while now, and I think it's really starting to affect our relationship, particularly our sex life. A few weeks ago, in bed, Marcy was on top of me, in the mount position. Everything was going great, and I put my hands on her ass while she was bouncing on my dick, like I always do.

Then she asked me to slap her ass. I smiled and just kinda patted it, you know? I wasn't going to really hit her. But, she asked me to do it again, harder. I didn't want to, so I just kinda patted her bottom again, a tiny bit harder, but really not even a slap. There wasn¹t even a "slap" noise when I did it.

To make a long story short, we finished like we always do, but afterwards she kept asking me why I wouldn¹t hit her harder. Johnny, I¹m not into the S&M thing, and the last thing I want to do is put a palm print on my barely-18-years-old girlfriend, considering her parents don¹t even know she¹s seeing me. I don¹t think they¹re gonna be too keen on the fact that I¹m 37, divorced, with two kids. I don't want to lose Marcy, but I don't want to hit her, either.

Tonight might have been where she drew the line in the sand, because tonight we didn't finish because she got upset, challenged my manhood, and made me drive her home. When she got out, she told me I should only call her, "When I grew some balls." Johnny, what can I do, this is serious.-Unwilling, via the internet

Dear Unwilling,
In the words of one of my favorite bands, The Offspring: She's got issues. Check out the song, and you'll probably find there's a lot in there that applies to your semi-current girlfriend.

You've got two choices, the way The Master sees it. One, you do give her what she wants, just once, and see if she's really serious about you putting the palms to her. I've got a feeling that if you do give her the whack on the rump she's begging for, that she might back off . As far as a mark, unless you're the World's Strongest Man or something, a palm print on the butt shouldn't last more than a couple of minutes if you do it once.Of course, this does put you in an unenviable position. You don't like the idea of hitting her, and if she does still want you to continue after the first good whack, you're back at square one.

The second course of action, is to sit her down and ask her why she wants to be hit. Here's where your relationship with this girl is really going to hit a serious note. Does she think she deserves it for something? Does she feel she needs to be hit for a reason? Has she suffered abuse in the past? Dude, this is also unenviable, because you might be facing a girl who has all sorts of baggage and she needs to unload it somehow. Not that that's a bad thing, but it might really take some time to work through.

You seem to care about Marcy a lot. Sit her down, explain your concerns, and see if she opens up to you. If it's all about a thrill, maybe you'll have to compromise on occasion, if it's worth keeping the relationship.

Let me know what happens, Unwilling, and good luck.

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Tue, 12 Aug 2003 03:12:15 GMT

DATING TIPS
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“FOR GUYS, GETTING LAID IS A CHORE.
FOR WOMEN, GETTING LAID IS A CHOICE.” - Ross Jeffries

     Ross Jeffries knows ugly guys can get laid. By his own admission, he’s an ugly guy, and he gets laid. All the time. By many women. And he says he can teach you how to bag babes, too. The image at top right was the cover of the first self-published book Ross wrote about the girl-snatching secrets of Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP.
     The Boob Beat column of the September '95 issue introduced Jeffries to SCORE magazine readers: "The sexual revolution may be dead but there are some rebels left. Ross believes in a technique called NLP. Simply stated (which ain't easy), NLP involves the use of language and guided imagery to induce a state of sexual arousal in a woman. You then link that arousal to yourself. NLP is not theatrical hypnosis ('I am Julio Iglesias. You are my biggest fan!') nor should it be associated with B-movies that conjure up scenes of Bela Lugosi sexually controlling females through hypnotic will. 'He who hesitates, masturbates,' declares Jeffries. His classroom seminars and appearances ontelevision talk shows have hit a raw nerve in many who wouldn't mind if Jeffries and others like him fell through the earth's crust."
      Speed Seduction: The Amazing Seduction Secrets Of A Skinny, Ugly, 6 Ft. Geek From Culver City, California, That Could Get You All The Hot, Sexy Women You Could Ever Want, Despite Your Looks Or Age is a how-to by a successful hottie-hunter whose methods are taught in seven languages in 14 countries.
     “Speed Seduction is a way for men to attract and seduce women without dating,” the middle-aged Jeffries says. The concept has obvious appeal.
     No dating?
     No expensive meals?
     No listening to her life story?
     Five minutes to sex?
     Indeed, Jeffries’ website, speed-seduction.com, is a tool box for anyone from the lonely guy who's had enough of self-service to the booty-bagger who wants to ramp up. And it reads like a Horatio Alger story of a geek who pulled himself up by his bootstraps and became a lady killer:

     My Love Life Used To Be A TOTAL DISASTER!
     The Sexual Equivalent Of The Sahara Desert!
     I Got Laid A Grand Total Of Twice!
     The Phone Call From God That Changed My Life!
     Ugly, Skinny, Geeky Me Could Write My Own Ticket And Attract All The Hot Women I Wanted!

     “The best part is you’re no longer getting into a relationship just so you can get laid regularly,” Jeffries said. “I’m not suggesting you stop being yourself, but you have to transform yourself and get rid of behavioral habits that cause you to fail before you start.
     “Women want sex more than money or power. By focusing on this aspect, you avoid falling into the trap of trying to meet her material expectations. You’re simply going to give her the kind of sexual satisfaction she wants.”
     Sounds better than Saturday night at home with a six-pack, your mouse and the gallon tub of Vaseline. But is Jeffries nothing more than a snake-oil salesman who will do anything to sell his audio tapes and seminars?
     I did what any skeptic would do: a test drive of Speed Seduction techniques. Then I gave my results to Jeffries for a critique of my successes and failures. He pulled no punches. Because in love and war, only the strong survive.

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Test Case One:
The Supermarket Siren

     Having come and gone more than once without scoring the smoking chicas who shop at my local market, I wondered if I could control my lust enough to put Ross’s methods to work.
     I zeroed in on an ash-blonde braless beauty in skin-tight hip-huggers and Cuban heels. She thrust her superstructure forward as she navigated the aisles. I smiled at her. To my surprise, she smiled back and slowed her pace as I followed.
     We approached the fruit stand. I watched her handle the cantaloupes as I searched for an opening line. All I could think of was the round, firm globes of her megaboobsand ass, and my thoughts were totally scrambled as she licked her glossy lips. I sidled up next to her, picked up a juicy bunch of grapes and plopped them onto the scale.
     “Excuse me,” I said, “But I hope you won't be offended if I pay you a compliment.”

     JEFFRIES: “Hang on a minute! Where do I advocate something THAT weak? I do say to say, ‘Excuse me,’ but that part about ‘not being offended’ is carrying politeness into begging. I wonder where you got that I advocate THAT. I do NOT!”

     She picked up a plantain that would make Shaq’s schlong look like a toothpick.
     “See this?” she said. “You know where to put it, right?" The three-sixty she did gave me a panoramic view of her butt. Then she vaporized.
     Experiment over.

JEFFRIES: “Come on. She was that big of a cunt? I've never had a woman say any such thing to me. EVER. But then again, I don't beg for the right to give her a compliment.”

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Test Case Two:
Mating Dance.

     I met Kat at a South Beach party in 8th latinas street. She was a quirky, blonde interpretive dancer who put on artsy, semi-erotic shows around town. I decided to push her buttons by commenting on how impressed I was by the image of woman as goddess that she was putting out in her performances. Floating a Speed Seduction-type phrase, I asked if she agreed that “sometimes you feel a connection you really can’t explain. But when you feel it, you have to let it get inside you.”
     “I like adventure, especially extreme kinds of scenes,” she said as I admired her high-cheekbones, full mouth and pert bosom.
     “Show me,” I challenged.
     Her body language promised more. “Call me anytime,” she whispered into my left ear as her knees rubbed mine.
     I called her the next day. She suggested I pick her up the following evening to, as she put it suggestively, “get together.” She asked me to take her to dinner and wondered if I knew an intimate, romantic café with a slightly offbeat, even kinky atmosphere? Sure I did.
     Jeffries’ warning against falling into date-like situations came back to me, but like an overenthusiastic rookie, I let myself get suckered by the idea that I was halfway around the bases already.

     JEFFRIES: “Okay, so you didn’t follow what I taught. You got some interest and then turned right around and put yourself through the dating frame, and she naturally viewed you as another sucker instead of someone different as you FIRST came off to be.
     “If you don't follow what I say, it isn't a fair test. If I tell you to drive 100 MPH but you are stuck in neutral, is that my fault? No, it’s yours. YOU DIDN'T FOLLOW MY DIRECTIONS!”

     During dinner, I tried to seal the deal. The smooth jazz, red walls, Oysters Rockefeller and flickering candlelight made it all seem like a fait accompli. I made my move.
     “Look,” I said. “I’m a lot of person, and that overwhelms some people.”
     “So am I,” she said, looking directly into my eyes.
     “We might want to test each other,” I offered.
     “We might,” she countered.
     I paid the bill. As she got into my car, she flashed some thigh. Her dragon tattoo riveted my attention. The coquettish tone of her voice had me feeling like a winner.
     “I’m curious about your tattoo,” I said.
     “You want to know all the answers right now, don’t you?”
     “I’m ready to take whatever you’re ready to share with me," I replied, feeling clever but realizing that quip might just be my deal-breaking mistake.

JEFFRIES: “No, the mistake was letting her call the shots. By following her suggestion that you go out somewhere, you let her control you. The right answer was, “I really don't have time for dating, but if you are up for hanging out and exploring how good you can feel, well…”
“Even better would have been to fuck her the first night you met her. That ‘call me’ stuff put you through HER hoop-jumping routine, like every other guy. I would have said, ‘Nah, phone numbers are for nerds. I'd rather go on the ride than hold on to the ticket stub. How about you?’

A block from her apartment, Kat turned to me and said, “Living with a roommate is kind of annoying at times. And I’ve got some paperwork I’ve got to catch up on.” The peck on the cheek I got as I delivered her to her door had “strikeout” written all over it.

JEFFRIES: “Well, DUH!”
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Test Case Three:
Mona The Mall Queen.

     I picked myself up and hit the mall on a Saturday night. I came across Mona in a runners’ specialty store as she perused the shoes in the men’s display. She was a petite hottie with a butt and belly that said, “I like it hard,” and a nicely crafted pair of C-cups. Speed Seduction material? Time to find out.
     “I think the men’s rack is on the other side,” I opened.
     “I know. But I like the look of these,” she replied as she scanned my package. “You look like a runner. Sprints?”
     “Actually, I’ve done a few marathons.” A good start.
     “I like short, hard runs,” she said. She was running her hands across a shoe like it was penile tissue.
     “Slow and steady wins the race, some say,” I said.
     She laughed. “I’m Mona,” she said, extending her hand. “Maybe you can show me how to pace myself.” She moved towards the back of the store. We were alone. “Picking up some new gear?” she said. She plucked a sleeveless running top and shorts off the shelf. “Maybe you can try these on for me.” She motioned to the changing room.

JEFFRIES: “Once again, she is directing YOU. YOU are doing what SHE suggests. NO NO NO! Take charge. Make HER model for you.”

I ducked inside, pulled off my clothes and got into the shirt and shorts. Bulging with excitement, I waited for her to come in. A few minutes went by. I opened the changing room door and saw Mona striding out of the store. The sales clerk had a grin on his face.
“That bitch comes in here all the time,” he said. “She always picks something out and never buys anything.”

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Test Case Four:
Poetry in Motion.

     I was having drinks on the deck of a friend’s waterfront house when Jessi, a tall Italian poet with legs for days, showed up. We talked about poetry and exchanged numbers and email addresses. Then she started complaining about her current boyfriend.
     “He always says he’s too busy to call me,” she said. “I’m really fed up. I need a man who really knows how to love. A man who knows that the power of love is everything.”
     I seized my chance. “And if you met such a man, would you be able to handle him?” I said. This was classic Jeffries.
     “I would give him everything,” she said.
     We walked back into the house to get some ice, and Jessi said, “Oh, damn. I forgot to wear panties today.”
     “Thank you for sharing that with me,” I said. “But I have a feeling there’s more.”
     She leaned back against a wall and guided my hand straight up her thigh to her love nest. The kiss that followed singed my body hair. She gasped and pushed me away.
     “I want you to read my work,” she said. “But now you must go.” I didn’t argue.
     I got home to find one of the most erotic emails I’ve ever received. My cell-phone rang, and, sure enough, it was Jessi.
     “Did you get my poems?” she asked.
     “Jessi, I sense you’re a woman of real depth who wants someone to explore and understand her fully,” I said. I could see her responding.

JEFFRIES: “Nice use of how she views herself. You are using what SHE told you as a guide for what to say. Notice the difference: You use HER words to feed back to her, but YOU control the actions and YOU give the suggestions, not her. Feed back what a woman says but don’t DO what a woman suggests or tells you. Get the difference?

     “I need a place to write for a few days,” she said. “I cannot focus where I am now. Do you know what I mean?” Focus. With her Italian accent, it sounded like fuck us. I wondered whether she was using Jeffries’ method of using words such as “focus” and “below me” (“Blow me”) in just the right situations to send subliminal messages.
     “You can come here whenever you want,” I said. “And feel free to let the inspiration flow.”
     Jessi met me the next evening at a bookstore. We browsed the racks together. Later, she showed up at my pad in a slinky dress that didn’t stay on and stiletto heels that did. Some women know where all a guy’s erogenous zones are. Jessi was one of those women.
     But then she told me she wanted to move in. I felt like a sledgehammer had hit me square in the gut.

JEFFRIES: “Hey, you got the pussy. Don’t complain. But this one sounds suspiciously like a Klingon. With Klingons, fire the torpedoes, raise the shields and go to Warp Five."

Like he said, at least I got laid. And in Speed Seduction, that’s the bottom line.

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Sun, 20 Jul 2003 21:27:34 GMT

SEX TIP #14

Dear sex tip counselor,
My girlfriend and I have been dating about five months. She swears that I’m the only guy she’s ever been with, but last week we had sex for the first time and, nothing. I didn’t feel her cherry pop, she didn’t bleed, nothing. I’m wondering, could she really have been a virgin, or was she lying to me? My friend tells me that she’s probably been around, and was just too afraid that I’d dump her if I knew the truth. Please get back to me, quick.-Paul, Scranton, Pennsylvania

Dear Paul,
Your friend, is a moron. Your girlfriend, if you care about her as much as you seem to care about whether or not she was really a virgin, doesn’t necessarily deserve the third degree. A woman’s “cherry” is just a popular term for her hymen, which is not a reliable means of determining whether or not she has or has not engaged in sex before. The hymen is merely tissue, and as such can both be stretched, or torn.

This can be the result of the use of a tampon, a dildo or vibrator, her own fingers, etc. Is she athletic?

Evidence shows that it's possible to tear the hymen during non-sexual activities such as horseback riding. Has she ever undergone a complete gynecological examination? That, too, could be a reason why her hymen wasn’t intact for the popping you expected.

And, of course, there is the possibility that she’s engaged in sexual relations with penetration before. If you and your girlfriend have a good relationship, there can be dozens of reasons that your first time having sex was barrier-free.

Trust her when she says she was a virgin. There’s no other way of telling (unless she tells you otherwise) so don’t sweat it. And find some new friends while you’re at it.

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Mon, 07 Jul 2003 04:08:01 GMT

SEX TIP #13

Dear sex tip counselor,
Me and one of my friends got drunk one night, and I can’t even remember how it happened, but we ended up kissing each other. Even though that’s all we did, I can’t stop thinking about it. Am I turning into a lesbian?-Kim, via the Internet

Dear Kim,
Relax. Either you’re a lesbian, or you’re not. Kissing a friend, particularly when you’re drunk, doesn’t mean you’re turning into anything. Do you like guys? Perhaps you have bi-sexual tendencies. Or, perhaps you just got a little experimental because the booze loosened you up a bit. Some people (both men and women) fantasize about members of the same sex, and some even engage in relations to experiment, and that does not necessarily define their sexual preferences. Have you spoken with your friend about this? One way to resolve the issue is to be open about it. You do not mention in what capacity you’ve been thinking about the encounter, so I can’t tell if it’s because you’re worried about turning into a lesbian, because you’re worried about dealing with your friend, or whether you’re considering the opportunity for another encounter while sober. Ease up on yourself, and don’t worry. You’ve done nothing thousands of women before you haven’t experienced, and you’ve probably come a lot closer to finding out what you really desire sexually than most others.

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Wed, 02 Jul 2003 05:43:23 GMT

SEX TIP #12

Dear sex tip counselor,
I am a 42 year old man who has been dating a high school senior for about three months now. Amy is 18, cute as a button, and wears a 34A bra. We had sex on the second date, and generally screw about three times a week, more if she can get out of the house. My only complaint is that Amy insists that I wear a condom because she’s afraid of getting pregnant. I’ve promised her that I’ll pull out on time, but she says no way. While she does give great head, Amy won’t let me cum in her mouth and anal isn’t an option with her. I offered to get her birth control pills, but she thinks that her snoopy mother would find them (which happened with her older sister). What should I do? I’m getting really tired of wearing a raincoat every time we fuck.-Name withheld, via snail mail

Dear Rubber Restricted,
The first thing you need to consider is, what’s more important to you, wearing a condom, or losing the 18-year-old Amy? It’s obvious she has serious issues on her mind, and you’re more concerned with cumming in her mouth or relying on pulling out to avoid pregnancy. For your information, did you know that pre-cum can also carry semen? Did you know that even if you don’t ejaculate inside her, that any seminal fluid that leaks out of your cock can result in pregnancy? Is that a risk you’re willing to take because you don’t like to wear rubbers? How do you think the sex will be if you continue to try and convince your high school girlfriend to practice risky, unsafe sex? She’s not asking for all that much, pal, and what she’s requiring protects you both. If you find traditional, latex condoms uncomfortable, try a lambskin brand. Be forewarned, however, they aren’t a barrier to sexually transmitted diseases or as foolproof as latex condoms. Some people do report, however, that the loss in sensation is negligible in comparison with some brands of latex condoms. Do some research, buy some different brands, and practice with them until you find one you both like. In the end you’ll make her happy, you’ll be taking steps to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, and the more different ones you try, the more fucking you get to do. What could be better than that?

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Wed, 11 Jun 2003 04:14:42 GMT

SEX TIP #11

Dear sex tip counselor,
Sometimes when me and my girlfriend have sex, even though she wants to go right at it, she’s not really lubed up enough to start, and it hurts her a little when I put it in. Is this normal? Chris, via the Internet.

Dear Chris,
It seems that your girlfriend’s mind is working faster than her pussy. It’s nice that she’s dying to get into it right away, but she should be good and ready by the time you’re ready to slip it in there, bud. My advice would be to slow her down just a little, and either use your fingers on her until she’s wet enough to make it feel good for both of you (dry humping can be irritating on you as well as her), or give her a little oral action.

Even if she’s so anxious she doesn’t let you spend any time down there, even a few, good, raunchy, saliva-dripping laps of her teen twat should be enough to get you both started. Be aware, however, that if even during sex she remains dry, she should definitely consult a doctor to see if there’s anything physical behind her problem, aside from just rushing to get you up inside of her. If she’s just in a rush, at the very least she can wait for you to apply a squirt or two of a water-based lube on your pole before the poking begins. And if she’s not, maybe the doctor can address what’s wrong and your girlfriend might turn into the great, squirting sweetheart.

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Mon, 02 Jun 2003 02:55:33 GMT

SEX TIP #10

Dear sex tip counselor,
I would like some advice about anal sex. I am having an affair with a guy with quite small penis so I thought it would be good to try it with him. I had tried once before but the guy could not get it in because he was too big.

Anyway it hurt and still the next day I felt pain "down there". He really liked it though and wants to do it at will now but the pain stops me from doing it. I enjoyed the fact he got off so much on it and that turned me on but I really don't like the pain.

Does it get easier? How many times before it does? Do you need to do it on a regular basis to stretch a bit?
I appreciate any help, thank you.
Wanting but doubting.

Dear Wanting but doubting,
Like anything else regarding sex, it should feel good! Unless you are into BDSM...and like it.

The fact that your 'big guy' doesn't care about your pain, does not bode well. You may enjoy the tremendous pleasure HE gets, but that is more related to a mental state of things than to a sensory situation. You only feel the pain.

Anal muscles can relax if 'treated' carefully, like licking the surrounding hole and playing with fingers around and inside the 'walls', but you have to have the right partner to do this, someone understanding not someone who blindly pushes ahead, not matter what. Typically, a tight anus is a tight anus and won't become bigger over time, except for the natural 'stretchness' it may gain as a result of 'time decay'.

The 'smaller guy' might be a good option, if this second lover of yours is of your interest AND if in addition, he cares about you. He might be a good option not because he is smaller, but because he might 'know' how to get you off during anal sex provided he is more considerate. The first guy seems more focused on his own pleasure. The second guy is still an untried mistery.

Remember, discomfort is not about sex and anal sex is as much about pleasure as vaginal or oral. If one day you happen to like it, really like it, you will have acquired one more ammo in your arsenal of orgasmic weapons. Enjoy, but don't push it! Anal sex is not for everyone and that is fine.

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Sat, 31 May 2003 03:42:55 GMT

SEX TIP #9

Dear sex tip counselor,
Sometimes when I’m having sex with my girlfriend, she tries to stick her finger in my ass. What’s up with that?! I’m a lot older than she is (35 to her 19) but this wasn’t anything we did when I was in high school. Does she think I’m Bi or something? I’m definitely not. Puzzled in Arizona

Dear Puzzled,
Have you tried it? I can tell from your letter that you’re very defensive about it, so don’t immediately think that you’re being seen as homosexual because it feels good to have your asshole fingered. Have you ever tried anal sex with your girlfriend, or a past lover? Know how good it feels to bury your cock into an extraordinarily tight ass? Pretty damned good, right? Did she like it? A lot of women do. That’s because the asshole is similar to the pussy in many ways. There’s a concentration of nerve endings there that react when stimulated. If a woman can get off from a good ass-fucking, why shouldn’t you be able to enjoy something as small as her finger playing around the back door? Lighten up, try it once, and if you don’t like it, let her know. If you do like it, look at what you found out. Have some fun, easy rider.

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Thu, 29 May 2003 03:20:28 GMT

SEX TIP #8

Dear sex tip counselor,
I need some advice. I want to ask this girl to the prom, but I’m nervous as hell every time I get around her. I know that nobody’s asked her yet, and I know if I wait I’m gonna wind up missing out and feeling like a dick. How can I get through asking her without looking like a jerk? Anxious in Cedarhurst.

Dear Anxious,
The best thing, is that you know what’s wrong, and you’re looking for a way to confront it. Think about it, just like Kinga (12/00) you know a girl who doesn’t have a date, and wants to be asked. And believe me, every girl wants to be asked to the prom, so she’s probably just as anxious as you are. Since just being around her makes you nervous, try approaching her when you’re hanging out with a supportive friend. Let him know the deal, so he’ll know when to vamoose. If your would-be prom date is with a friend of her own, conversation in a group is always easier than one-on-one. Let your buddy -and don’t be afraid to use a female friend, or even your sister if you have one- get her friend talking about something, and just casually bring up the prom. Once you break the ice, you have the perfect in. Girls will talk about the prom and their plans -if they have any- non-stop. If you see her clamming up, you know that she’s uncomfortable, so you’ll be on equal footing. From there, asking her out will probably be a relief. For both of you. Don’t worry about it, and write me back after the prom and let me know how you two, lovebirds, did.

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Mon, 26 May 2003 07:00:29 GMT

SEX TIP #7

Dear sex tip counselor,
Do really big sex toys risk stretching you out? My girlfriend has a dildo I can only describe as frightening. I’m not anywhere near as big as that thing is, and I know she uses it, and I’m wondering if she can stretch herself out to the point that I’m not going to be able to make her cum any more. Is this possible? Rick

Dear Rick,
Relax. The muscles in the vagina, if you’ve never surfed some of the crazier sex sites online, are extremely tolerant of large objects. You may have heard of a function called childbirth, after which women continue to have sex, and enjoy it, and don’t necessarily cause an echo when you get near there. The vagina, unlike the anus (where the risk does exist of compromising the elasticity of the sphincter over years of prolonged, anal intercourse), can handle all shapes and sizes, and still return to handling whatever you’ve been making her happy with thus far. You have been making her happy with it thus far, right?

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